redgirl1974's Journal, 07 Jun 16

I couple days ago some one complained that my post are embarrassing bc of the way I post things "like a 13 yrs old" . Ive been on FS since 2010 and most active since 2014. Ive been working at weight loss and over all wellness for 2 years now and in my eyes, have been successful. Ive always felt like this site is a place that I could come to and post what was honestly on my mind and the get advice and support that I cant get in the "real world" yet remain "anonymous" and not be judged. Never have I ever intended to offend anyone and if I have, it was not on purpose or meant to be hurtful. Ive always tried to lend my 2 cents where I can with the hopes that my journey and experience would/could help someone. If my post come across as "childish" its bc Im young at heart and try and have fun with my weight loss and make light and jokes, even at my own expense. Ive always tried to "keep it real" and again if doing so has annoyed or offended anyone, it definitely was/is not my intention. With that said, I refuse to change who I am for anyone, especially some one who will be "alone forever". :) Have a great day ya'll! I know I will !!

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1379 kcal Fat: 88.06g | Prot: 80.49g | Carbs: 79.94g.   Breakfast: low carb bar, Sugar in the Raw Stevia in The Raw (Packet), Coffee, Albertsons Heavy Whipping Cream, Scrambled Egg (Whole, Cooked), America's Choice Bacon Thick Sliced. Lunch: Capers, Black Olives, Trader Joe's Freshly Shaved Parmesan, Romano & Asiago Cheese, Olive Garden Italian Salad Dressing, Mixed Salad Greens. Dinner: Provolone Cheese, Hormel Original Pepperoni Slices, Mission Carb Balance Whole Wheat Tortillas (Soft Taco). Snacks/Other: Pace Mild Picante Sauce, Baken-ets Traditional Fried Pork Skins, Strawberries, Blue Diamond Almond Breeze Unsweetened Vanilla Milk, Vega Protein & Greens Berry Flavor. more...
3502 kcal Exercise: Weight Training (moderate) - 50 minutes, High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT) - 30 minutes, Resting - 5 hours and 40 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours, Desk Work - 8 hours, Housework - 1 hour. more...

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yes MJ, and he thinks this post is about him, with his comment about me just "letting it go". It has nothing to do with him.. Ive asked him privately to not comment on my post but he seems to have no respect and "stands" by what he said.. I wish he would just go away..  
07 Jun 16 by member: redgirl1974
well, maybe the name says it all?..."alone4ever78" Would you be surprised if he was alone 4 ever with an attitude like that? 
07 Jun 16 by member: mahjohn
Seriously - When it comes to Weight Loss the ONLY point of view you need to worry about IS YOUR OWN !! This is Your Personal Journal Entry on your personal journey. If someone doesn't like the way you express yourself - SCREW EM' - You Go Girl and record your entries ANY WAY YOU DAMN WELL PLEASE !!!  
07 Jun 16 by member: Rose Hala
Some people have no social skills. But what is REALLY important is not whether you act like a teenager or not, but that you actually LOST a teenager!!(A 100 pounder!!) So very good!! :) 
07 Jun 16 by member: Becca P
Redgirl, my first time reading, and I don't think you deserved that person, yet the others who are supporting you are the ones you want to hold onto. They are good and provide support and they listen. Here I am, my second day here, feeling hopeful that this site is not like the one I left. I find that there IS still nasty people here, like Redgirl1974 talks about. I guess that is the reality of online forums, sad really. I can only hope that I don't have to be their target. All I want, is to find decent people who are kind and understand that we all have to get along happily while getting healthy. I see that support in this group. Somehow, I wish there was a way we could put those nasties in a "Nasty People to Block" list so we can quickly block only them and not have to read the bullying. No one needs that. No one deserves that.  
07 Jun 16 by member: IzeIZAwake
Ditto IzelZAwake. And this is why some choose to stay private.  
07 Jun 16 by member: Engeland
Sad and pitiful. One more thing to worry about......geez.  
07 Jun 16 by member: Engeland
Well, Redgirl, the troops are here. Plenty of support for sure. 
07 Jun 16 by member: Engeland
Engeland, Hmm. I will probably want to remain private. However, just know that I am not one of the nasty ones if you or anyone else sees me chatting around. I won't misconstrue what people say, and I'm not abusive. I am still figuring out the settings here.  
07 Jun 16 by member: IzeIZAwake
I love your posts. Screw him . 
07 Jun 16 by member: tweetycat
I loved her post too, but felt empathy as it was sad to read too. I can't find out how to block someone via settings. Help?  
07 Jun 16 by member: IzeIZAwake
Stick to what you are doing and be true to yourself. I admire candor and honesty. No one is forcing another to read ANY post here, so they do not have to read it. keep on truckin'. 
07 Jun 16 by member: thebigguy
When you're insignificant in the real world, it leaves a stain that can't be hidden in the cyber world. You experienced a human stain; nothing more. 
07 Jun 16 by member: Five-Two Cowboy
Ize,, everyone here is amazing.. just one guy who ruins it for every one. he always goes around posting unnecessary negative comments and insults. In his defense, everyone is entitled to an opinion and just cause I dont like him is no reason for me to "bash" him.. My complaint is that what he says is hurtful and straight out mean sometimes and totally uncalled for. Others can back that up.  
07 Jun 16 by member: redgirl1974
That so-and-so's username is, sadly, prophetic. I ENJOY your posts, they are so INSPIRING, keep being who you are!  
07 Jun 16 by member: PokeyJack
Not to beat a dead horse but... look how much attention this guy has gotten by being obnoxious! 
07 Jun 16 by member: Hermiones Mom
Red....all we need to do is "set our boundaries'...and not allow negative remarks pull us down to their level....keep smiling!! 
07 Jun 16 by member: Maureen Zavesiczky
I get it that we're spending too much time on the guy. He's probly reading here and laughing at his wickedness of results. Just mean. The problem is we start to read each comments, and then realize we're hooked into reading his, and it ends up being nasty and unnecessary to begin with. That's my thoughts. I still haven't found a way to block any one person here. On the other hand, no one has been nasty to yet :) I hope it stays that way.  
07 Jun 16 by member: IzeIZAwake
I've always enjoyed the familiarity of your posts. No worries! 
07 Jun 16 by member: erikahollister
It's a shame we can't block these horrible people who ruin the site, especially the deranged ones who keep getting banned and keep coming back and ranting.  
07 Jun 16 by member: tgfatsec

     
 

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