It's hard to come home from work and make healthy meals that everyone in the house will love. I have that same issue. My husband tries to help out, and he honestly tries to make stuff that is good for us, but sometimes he just misses the mark totally. Besides that, he can eat whatever he wants and not gain an ounce (even though he's trying), and I have a growing 15 year old son who eats like a crazy giant. So, it's so very hard to keep on a good track for me.
Sorry you are having a hard time with it. I am as well, I can relate!