I am almost 40 years old. I live with my signifant other of 13 years and my youngest son(17) of 3BOYS ages 22, 18 and 17. I started my real weight gain when I was put on anti depressants 13 years ago. I am at the most I have ever weighed and I am not happy about myself. I suffer from alot of pain in my hips,legs, feet, lower back...they think it may be arthitis. I am a diabetic diagnosed in 2010, I have to take insulin shots 5 times a day. :(