redgirl1974's Journal, 07 Jun 16

I couple days ago some one complained that my post are embarrassing bc of the way I post things "like a 13 yrs old" . Ive been on FS since 2010 and most active since 2014. Ive been working at weight loss and over all wellness for 2 years now and in my eyes, have been successful. Ive always felt like this site is a place that I could come to and post what was honestly on my mind and the get advice and support that I cant get in the "real world" yet remain "anonymous" and not be judged. Never have I ever intended to offend anyone and if I have, it was not on purpose or meant to be hurtful. Ive always tried to lend my 2 cents where I can with the hopes that my journey and experience would/could help someone. If my post come across as "childish" its bc Im young at heart and try and have fun with my weight loss and make light and jokes, even at my own expense. Ive always tried to "keep it real" and again if doing so has annoyed or offended anyone, it definitely was/is not my intention. With that said, I refuse to change who I am for anyone, especially some one who will be "alone forever". :) Have a great day ya'll! I know I will !!

View Diet Calendar, 07 June 2016:
1379 kcal Fat: 88.06g | Prot: 80.49g | Carbs: 79.94g.   Breakfast: low carb bar, Sugar in the Raw Stevia in The Raw (Packet), Coffee, Albertsons Heavy Whipping Cream, Scrambled Egg (Whole, Cooked), America's Choice Bacon Thick Sliced. Lunch: Capers, Black Olives, Trader Joe's Freshly Shaved Parmesan, Romano & Asiago Cheese, Olive Garden Italian Salad Dressing, Mixed Salad Greens. Dinner: Provolone Cheese, Hormel Original Pepperoni Slices, Mission Carb Balance Whole Wheat Tortillas (Soft Taco). Snacks/Other: Pace Mild Picante Sauce, Baken-ets Traditional Fried Pork Skins, Strawberries, Blue Diamond Almond Breeze Unsweetened Vanilla Milk, Vega Protein & Greens Berry Flavor. more...
3502 kcal Exercise: Weight Training (moderate) - 50 minutes, High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT) - 30 minutes, Resting - 5 hours and 40 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours, Desk Work - 8 hours, Housework - 1 hour. more...

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Tgfatsec...no, we can't block. That's just too bad. I'd like the Jailed list to be made available. Be nice if we could put them in Jail here. Lol. Being new, I might have to do a written list of the names of nasty ones. I'm getting notifications on this post of Redgirl's and I'm here a lot today trying to get settings fixed so I know what is what on this site.  
07 Jun 16 by member: IzeIZAwake
Mostly, I think people can just say what they want. I take what is of value to me from the conversations and leave the rest. There is no call to be nasty, but that's how I roll all the time. I prefer to surround myself with supportive, positive people. 
07 Jun 16 by member: izzypup68
Well said Larry the cable guy... I def wouldnt ban/block/flag you.. LOL ..  
07 Jun 16 by member: redgirl1974
IzeIZAwake, the only problem with remaining private is that others cannot see how your doing and offer encouragement and/or advise, and I find that helpful. If you don't, that's fine, and it certainly is your prerogative to keep your info private, just wanted to point out the advantages of sharing. Nearly everyone here is pleasant, helpful and supportive -- just an occasional troll to keep us on our toes! Good luck on your weight loss journey! 
07 Jun 16 by member: pandasmom
Redgirl for President! 
07 Jun 16 by member: SjF60
Red, I have noticed our little baiter only pops up on posts where there is a significant outpouring of support, I think the potshots and snarky remarks are motivated by sheer jealousy and a need for attention of any type. A personality type that has to belittle others in order to make himself feel big and important. Small minded people should not impact your day in any manner, as I said before, other peoples opinions of me are none of my business. When you make it your business, you give them all your power, keep your power and your joy by giving them nothing....not your anger, indignation, or even the time it would take you to type a response. Would you really bother shooing a fly off of a horse turd? No, you wouldn't..... 
07 Jun 16 by member: debrafrederick
"Would you really bother shooing a fly off of a horse turd? No, you wouldn't....." OMG - Debrafrederick, I just choked on my protein shake laughing aloud!!!!!! 
07 Jun 16 by member: HCB
Well, at least you didn't snort it out your nose and spew it all over the screen! I've done that laughing at things on the computer! 
07 Jun 16 by member: debrafrederick
I just 99 percent of the time do what works for me.....IGNORE them. Don't care, will never meet, and for heaven's sake their opinion means NOTHING to me if they can't be civil and polite. Too many weirdos in this world and I have enough going on in my life to give them a moment of my time. So hugs and hugs and hugs to you Redgirl you really are very well liked on here and are informative, sound like fun, and I for one enjoy reading your posts! 
07 Jun 16 by member: gardengranny
Sorry I was late to the thread Red (tied up)...Two thumbs up from me and just consider the source for any comment (eyes roll)...I too think freedom of speech is important, I'll gladly wade through a little BS here and there as long as we can all weigh in on things. Take care Red, hope the responses here affirm that you're not coming across "wrong" to any of us!! 
08 Jun 16 by member: Steven Lloyd
Your posts are great, son open and honest, I love them, and definitely not like a 13-year-old! When you get negativity like that, remember that it usually says more about the person that says the negative things than it does about you! And it's often to do with envy 😉 
08 Jun 16 by member: heidij123
me jealous ? lol see my abs. im not obese people.and furthermore i have never insulted anyone on here, yes i throw odd curveballs at ppl, but i dnt insult anyone on here, ppl like smarty,phil, and of course red make insulting remarks about how i will be " alone forever" which way more out of bounds than anything i have ever said on here 
08 Jun 16 by member: alone4ever78
You rock Red.  
08 Jun 16 by member: Five-Two Cowboy
That's funny! Sounds like someone was ACTING like a 13 year old, and it wasn't you! Ignore them. 
08 Jun 16 by member: northernmusician
"Im not obese people" is not a defense. 
08 Jun 16 by member: kpwcalories
^I know right! I can't get over the "look at my abs" bit. I had to show my gf. Now we can't stop saying it for every response to anything. Try it. "Did you use my razor?" No, I didn't. Look at my abs." LOL. 
08 Jun 16 by member: Five-Two Cowboy
#lookatmyabs Where the hell is Jimmiepop when you need him? lmao 
08 Jun 16 by member: 1point21gigawatts
LMAO Cowboy!! 
08 Jun 16 by member: ImLaura
u rock red...I'm doing a limbo for you to keep it up and rock some more. keep on rockin' and a rollin' all the way to goal "That's the way uh huh, we like it" 
08 Jun 16 by member: IzeIZAwake
There will always be haters! Trust me if you address all the haters on the Internet it would take all day!! Just keep being awesome and don't give it the time of day :) 
08 Jun 16 by member: kitten75

     
 

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